Heart Focus

It has been my observation, when we pray, it should not be routinely structured to get something from God. Rather, prayer is a way to connect with Him and realign our hearts with His heart, His will on all things that matter. Prayer is an especially important tool during our walk with God. Prayer should not be taken lightly. Like any relationship, if you do not spend time with that person the relationship will eventually suffer. Prayer is a way for us to spend quality time with God. It is a way to deeply connect with Him and purge our mind of earthly things. When we pray, we open our hearts to Him — He works in us and through us. Prayer also helps us to build our relationship with God – focused on Him.

James 4:8 tells us — Draw near to God and He will draw near to you (NIV). I can recall multiple times in my own life moments in prayer where I pressed in and felt His peace override all understanding. Prayer helps us see life through a heavenly lens.

Philippians 4:6-7 says — Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds (NIV).

Prayer is important because it positions us to receive God’s peace during life’s hardest moments, prayer helps me stay focused on what is close to God’s heart! He is the One who can help you focus, find peace, comfort, healing, strength, purpose and so much more. God’s wisdom compels us to pray on regular basis about everything in our life (implied in James 1:5). Please understand, prayer for me is more than a formal, head bowed experience, it is daily chatter, all through the day. Talk with him like we talk with our close friends. Success, failure, opportunities, mistakes, heartache, little pleasures – these are the substance of a rich relationship.

Prayer is a gift; Paul tells us — pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people.” (Ephesians 6:18).

Waiting for a better time or better location to pray is counterproductive. We are told to Pray continually (1 Thessalonians 5:17). We offer praise for the good stuff and we ask for help when needed. James asks — Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray (James 5:13).

Our happenings are all good reasons to pray. Paul says — Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer (Romans 12:12). Dig deep into the heart of Wisdom, get quiet. Get humble. Focus. Get it done.

When Jesus prayed for his disciples in John 17, he prayed for those who would believe in him, “that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you” (John 17:21). Prayer helps us become one with the Father and have the kind of relationship Jesus had with him. When we come into the presence of God, all our interpretation and pretense are gone—there is nothing to hide because he sees everything and knows everything about us.

We are humbled by the realization God’s power, goodness, and how much we need him. And yet, God accepts us as we are—not because he wants us to stay that way, but because he knows that the relationship comes first. As we grow to love him, we choose to become more like him. When we find forgiveness through prayer, God softens our heart and allows us to forgive others. When we experience God’s compassion and mercy, we become much more comfortable sharing the experience with others. When we understand that God’s grace is freely given, we learn to accept God’s love; it transforms our hearts and our actions.

The best thing about prayer is the two-way conversation. This conversation we call prayer has all the components of communication; we talk to God, he listens, he talks to us, we listen. Communication is not communication unless information moves both ways between the two people involved in the event. Please do not deliver a briefing to God, engage in a conversation. Communicate. James 1:5 says – If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault.

I choose Jesus.

Running the Race to Completion

It has been my observation while reading the book of Hebrews, standing firm on a commitment to God is not easy (Hebrews 12:1). Why? We are mere humans who cringe at pain, loss, and try to avoid heartache. We are not comfortable with the unknown. We are unable to see into the future. Building and maintaining a steadfast heart (strong character) is not simple, but it is possible if we connect ourselves to God and strengthen our walk with God (Micah 6:8).

Creating a steadfast heart starts and ends with trust. We deepen our trust of God through experience. This is not a ‘thinking exercise’ it is a ‘doing exercise’.  We engage in life’s struggles to strengthen our relationship with God. We learn to trust others by doing things with friends and learning how they solve issues. We build trust by discovering how they think, what they do to meet life’s challenges. If we feel safe, we become willing to reveal our hearts and troubles to them (Ephesians 5:21). Sometimes, we discover that we cannot. Other times we discover that we can.

David Wilkerson tells us – “There are powerful forces at work today against every believer who would hold fast to his confident faith.…in the midst of all this anxiety and fear, we who trust in the Lord hear His Word telling us, ‘Be steadfast and confident to the end.’  The fact is, whenever there is mounting fear, God calls for greater steadfastness. Whenever there is great terror and falling away, He calls for greater confidence. Whenever there is gloom and despair, He calls us to increase our gladness and rejoicing. That is the nature of our heavenly Father. He has made provision for His people to hold fast and retain their joy in the severest of troubled times.” 

With God, we deploy prayer, worship, and attentiveness to his wisdom to build steadfastness. We enter into a long-term conversation with God to learn from him and recognize his presence all around us. This takes time. Yielding our life and heart toward God is a learned skill facilitated by the Holy Spirit. It takes attentiveness on our part as we investigate our past, locate those issues that are impeding progress, and then give those things to him. The more willing we are to trust, the deeper our relationship with God becomes, the more our hearts are steadfast in the storms (Ephesians 4:15). This takes time.

Paul continues in Ephesians 4:17-24 (paraphrased) — So I tell you this, and I insist on it in the Lord, that you must walk away from living as the Gentiles do, standing with your fist in the air, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance they are proclaiming and the gradual hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity to the things of God, they have given themselves over to sensuality, they indulge in every kind of impurity, and they are full of greed. That, however, is not the way of life you learned. You know how to walk with God. You were taught these things when you first heard about Christ. Clearly, you were taught about the things of God in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to allow the Holy Spirit to rebuild the attitude of your minds; and to ‘walk the walk’ in the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. (NIV)

Paul tells us that ‘walking the walk’ strengthens the heart muscle, grows our reliance on faith, and nurtures our trust in God. Micah presented this notion eons ago. What did he say? What does the Lord desire of us? To act justly, to love mercy, and to walk humblywith your God (see Micah 6:8).

This approach of stepping away from our norms, pulls us out of the feral lifestyle and brings us close to God. As we are being transformed, we take risks – perhaps we allocate more of our financial resources to God only to notice we still have plenty left. Perhaps we find time for the service of others only to notice we still have time for ourselves and our family. Perhaps we pray for somebody who has hurt us causing our recoil from them only to discover we have been changed and reach out to them with forgiveness. Trusting God. Steadfast Hearts.

I have witnessed this first-hand in many of your lives. I have watched you face impossible choices and find a way to stay true for Jesus. I have seen you make choices that would cause others to give up. I have seen your steadfast heart clinging to God and discovering his peace. We encourage each other.

I choose Jesus.

Hollywood and the Cool Breeze

The sun had not even reached above the ridge near the area where Frank Burbank and Miss Tillie were camping. Frank was a cowboy and a guide, but most people just called him Hollywood. Miss Tillie was a schoolteacher. She was married to Frank, but everybody called her Miss Tillie, even Frank. Her full name was Rosemarie Tillie. Frank and Rosemarie knew each other as young adults.

They drifted apart as Frank went out into the world looking for adventure and she worked to become a schoolteacher. Rosemarie received wise counsel from her Grandmother Ruth. Her grandmother told her to be patient – God would bring Frank back to his senses. She grew her skill as a Wind River Range teacher and waited for Frank to become more stable. Over the years, Rosemarie lost sight of Frank and put him out of her mind. But, just as Grandmother Ruth had said — Frank settled down. It was Grandmother Ruth that gave Frank the nickname of ‘Hollywood,’ She named him Hollywood because Frank looked a bit like a Hollywood star. Frank and Rosemarie did not get married until the middle portion of their life.

Today, in the autumn of their life, they were camping in this valley looking for interesting things to see and butterflies to chase. Gradually as the sun appeared, Hollywood (Frank Burbank) remembered parts of a song that his mother (Gracie Burbank, Mother Gracie) used to sing when she was younger.

Hollywood sang aloud:

I love to feel the soft summer breeze and hear whispers through the trees.

Where you listen to the mountain stream, we often sit and dream.

The cowboys I remember true, were men who worshiped God above.

They just loved the big outdoors; God made this place for them to adore.

When he completed the song, Hollywood and Miss Tillie sat quietly for a minute. Then the smell of breakfast filled their Wind River campsite. Hollywood loved to smell coffee and bacon. He could not wait for breakfast. His tummy rolled and grumbled; he was pacing around the fire.

Hollywood said — Cannot wait, cannot wait. Really need some of your yummy breakfast, so we can begin the day.

Miss Tillie smiled and calmed him down as she carefully crafted the morning breakfast. She finished the bacon and set it aside, she finished the eggs and covered them with a lid to keep them warm, she made a little bit of oatmeal, and then she poured a nice cup of coffee. She found a bright red tablecloth with little stripes going every which way.

Miss Tillie smiled and said — I have used this tablecloth many times, it is full of memories, it will make the food taste better.

Then Miss Tillie laid out the plates on the tablecloth and placed the coffee cups where they were easy to reach. She invited Hollywood to have a seat so they could pray before they ate.

Miss Tillie prayed — Father God may you bless this food that we are about to eat, may you bless us in our activities today, may you keep us safe from trouble, and may we see the glory of your creation today. In Jesus name Amen.

With a great big smile on his face, Hollywood said – Amen! Let us eat.

Everything looked so good, Hollywood did not know where to begin; he just looked at the plate for a while. Then he gently picked up a small piece of bacon and crunched away on the wonderful flavors and aromas that Miss Tillie had made for him. Hollywood then found the eggs and gently placed them on a fork so he could treat them with all the respect that she did when she prepared them for him.

Hollywood sat back with the piece of toast and began to think about a song he was remembering. Something that Miss Tillie used to sing when she was very young and just getting started as a teacher. Hollywood remembered the song and started to sing —

I love to walk in the springtime and listen to the larks.

Can you hear God’s wind blowing, can you hear the angelic harps?

They sing in the valley where the deep snow laid just a month ago.

Now it is spring and I smell the flowers when I walk ever so slow.

Miss Tillie said – my grandmother Ruth taught me that song. She learned it from her mother. The song reminds me of the times when my grandmother would teach me about the things of God. She told me that God created the heavens and earth—everything we can see, everything we cannot see.

Miss Tillie continued — At first the Earth was difficult to see, it did not have much of a shape. The Spirit of God hovered and looked around. Then God made more changes. He said – let there be light. And just like that, light appeared, and he smiled. It was good. Then he let the night have its place and the day have its place. He was pleased. The next day, when the light appeared, he said — let there be a sky and land and oceans. Blue sky and blue waters appeared.  It was beautiful.

Miss Tillie continued – every time my grandmother Ruth sang the song, she taught me how God made everything we can see and everything we cannot see. I will always remember the respect she had for God. I hope I will always teach that respect to my students.

Hollywood sipped on his coffee. He could see the hope in Miss Tillie’s eyes as she talked about the things of God. He wondered what adventures they would get into today. He loved to listen to the stories from Miss Tillie’s childhood. Together they walked all through the valley for the rest of the day. They talked about things, listened to the larks, and marveled at God’s creation.

As the day ended, they settled down for supper. The night song from the critters was magnificent. The stars above retold the story of God’s creation. All was well in the world; Miss Tillie and her husband were content. A cool breeze lulled them to sleep. God was smiling…

Genesis 1:3-6 — And God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. God saw that the light was good, and he separated the light from the darkness. God called the light “day,” and the darkness he called “night.” And there was evening, and there was morning—the first day.

Please note: In 1956 a cowboy poet, Jim Jennings, published a short book about his experience working at ‘dude’ ranches in the west. My Great grandmother, Goldie Livingston, obtained a first edition copy of Jim’s self-published book in the fall of 1956. The poetry in this story is adapted from Jim’s book.